Title: Happy and Healthy Home/Proverbs 17:1
Contents Happy and healthy family
Text: Proverbs 17:1
Hymn: 455 (To me in the Lord)
Dreaming of a happy and healthy family is the wish of all of us. But these days, our society seems to have become a pretty good world to live in because of the development of culture and civilization, the higher the level of education, the more economical leeway, but the society is more brutal and the warmth of family is drying up. In short, the crisis of the modern family is It is coming. In times like these, we Christians must be models of happy and healthy families.
The traditional family society has become a nuclear family due to a rapid industrial society, and individualism is deepening. The idea of filial piety for the elderly is gone, and individualism is prevalent because parents want their children to stick to only the honors for success and success.
Let's take a look at some of the more serious situations right now:
1) The number of adolescents committing suicide is increasing.
An increasing number of adolescents commit suicide due to family problems, such as family disputes and reprimands from their parents. According to the state audit data submitted to the National Assembly by the Ministry of Education on the 14th, the number of students who committed suicide in elementary and middle schools nationwide by the end of August reached 94, including 62 high school students, 28 middle school students, and 4 state school students. By the end of this year, the number of suicide students is expected to exceed 128 who committed suicide in the past year, and the number of suicides has been on the rise since 100 in 1990. When looking at the causes of student suicide this year, 17 cases of family discord and 10 cases of parental rebuke 46 cases (49%) of the total, including 8 cases of family poverty, 7 cases of broken families, and 4 cases of overprotection of parents, were found to be due to internal problems. The reason for the defect was 9, and the reason for bad grades and other reasons was 7 each. On the other hand, as four of the students who died were from state school students, it was found that the trend of burning suicide was remarkable.
2) divorce
Among the counseling contents of the Family Law Counseling Center, divorce issues were the most common, and by education level, high school graduates, by age, 30s, and non-religious people showed the highest number of counseling.
According to the data analyzed by the Cheongju Branch of the Korean Family Law Counseling Center on the 4th for one year from May 1, last year to April 30, a total of 1,552 people, including 1,157 interviewed, 391 phoned, and 4 correspondence, were interviewed during this period. appeared to have been consulted. As a result of the analysis of 924 people who visited this counseling center for the first time among counselors (excluding re-counselors), divorce issues were the most common with 35.2% 326 people, followed by marital problems 17.5% 162 cases, criminal problems such as adultery and rape 6.3% 58 cases Inheritance Property relations 5.5%, 51 cases, bonds, debt relations, 5.4%, 50 cases, gender relations, 4.3%, 40 cases, other 25.6%, 237 cases.
By educational background, in the case of males (342 persons)/high school graduates (including dropouts) 34% 117 persons college graduates or higher 21% 72 middle school graduates 17.5% 60 national graduates 15.5% 53 persons uneducated 3% 11 persons unknown 8% 29 persons The number of women (582) was high school graduate 41%, 239, middle school graduate 20% 119, national 20% 115, college or higher 12%74, uneducated 15, 20 unknown
By age, males in their 30s 41% 139, 20s 23% 78 40s 16% 656 50s 9% 30 each, and females 30s 45% 260 20s 30% 175 40s 18% 103 5% in their 50s and 27 people.
By religion, both men and women were overwhelmingly non-religious at 76% and 60%, respectively, followed by Buddhism, Christianity, and Catholicism.
By occupation, male / office worker (17%) commercial (11%) agriculture (8) business (6.4%) was followed by female housewife (61%) commercial (11%) office worker (6%).
3) Sexual promiscuity and loss of morality
1) A family that loves, respects and acknowledges each other
2) Families that meet and spend a lot of time talking
3) A family where the heart and mind are connected
4) A family united by faith
5) A home without fights or pain
As a family in which parents set an example first, they should lead a life of faith, planting Jesus Christ in their hearts and entrusting them to God.
conclusion
The young life entrusted to us is not my child. You are a child of God. As a child of God, we must educate and teach according to God's will.