Title: Happy couple / Ephesians 5:22-33
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Happy couple / Ephesians 5:22-33
Today, modern people face many problems. What's more, the problem is the conflict in married life
and the fact that there is pain. Let's see the disastrous state of the world where the divorce rate is at a high level.
It's possible.
Here are a few reasons why the divorce rate soared.
It is because they have come to the front and have financial ability, because the marital ethics is collapsing,
This is because the advanced industrial society binds many people to time and organization. As a result
There is no time for conversation between the couple. Misfortune will sprout.
We Christians should pray with heartbreak in the face of this reality. far away moon, star
Even if I can't go to the country and love my enemy, I can't love the one spouse next to me.
As a Christian, it can be a shame before God. this time today we
We would like to share grace by telling you how we can continue our lives as a happy couple.
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1. We must create happiness.
Today's couples are passionate about making money. They run all day and night to make money. But
They don't put much effort into making the couple happy. When parents love their children
You can't force it. Even if you do not try to love, you are instinctively made to love. yes
Happiness between me and my husband does not happen by chance.
Make a gift. Practical activities such as gifting a bouquet of flowers to a couple or writing a love letter
Use your power. What if you only ask for love from the other person without expressing your love?
How would you like to be loved? Marriage is conditional. Don't try to get a lot, but to give a lot
do it. Then it comes back as much as you gave. Continue to cherish and love.
2. Have a deep conversation.
How busy this society is that work has deprived us of the opportunity to talk to each other. A wife as a wife,
Husband is busy and tired just like her husband. So there is no conversation between the couple. Today's couple problems
is caused by the lack of dialogue. Living together is not important. smiling outwardly
It seems like it's comfortable and it's comfortable, but there is no love that comes from the heart. to live unhappily
is. That's why we always have to work hard.
Not long ago, I read in the newspaper that an elderly couple who had reached the twilight had divorced by agreement. Number
Even after living together for ten years, the couple was not happy. Don't be deceived, help each other
Take the time to understand and have an open mind.
3. Love is an action and a will, not an emotion.
The reason we are not united and not in harmony is that we are different. four
Since Tan is the last time, it works strongly on the couple. If the couple separates, they fall into the hands of Satan.
because it's meant to be. Therefore, we must always be one in the Lord and openly communicate with each other.
We must glorify God by doing so.
True love is believing that the spouse you are living with is the best person for you.
is. Are you a happy couple when you continue to strive for harmony and love?
All. Happy couples don't happen automatically. Born and raised in a different environment
However, they become a happy couple when they make sacrifices through hard work and hard work.
4. Look at the strengths of the other person, but not the weaknesses.
See the other person's strengths, praise them, and acknowledge them, but don't mention their weaknesses. happy couple
And here's the difference between the unhappy couple. Point out, criticize, and attack each other
Rather, we should complement each other's shortcomings and cover our shortcomings. that's wealth
Wealth. That is why it is said that 'love covers all faults'. My spouse's faults
Love is accepting and accepting as it is. The good thing is that anyone can love it.
To be a happy couple, we must accept and tolerate each other's faults
is. This kind of acceptance requires a process, which is a process called forgiveness. each other
Even if you do something wrong, you have to forgive and forgive again. Overcoming the shortcomings and acknowledging the strengths
Compliments are the only way to become a happy couple.
So how can we do this?
We must live a life of love, sacrifice and service.
Marriage is a relationship between you and me, not a relationship between you and it or me and it.
A happy couple becomes a happy couple when we compliment and encourage each other through yielding and sacrificing. '
Even if I am reborn, I will marry my current spouse now.??You must be able to live a true Christian life.
Today we are not married to rule over our spouses. Serve and support your spouse
Married to love. Therefore, if we have a wrong idea, we change it
I bless you in the name of the Lord that you may enjoy the life of a happy married couple.