Title: Happy Family
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Ex) A young couple's quiz
Example) Mother Teresa's words
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How do I make a happy family?
1. It must be a family that fears God (verses 1, 4, 5, 6).
When a person does not meet God, he becomes unhappy.
The same goes for households.
Example) Cornelius's Assumption
Ex) Shim Jin-song Shaman - Father is an elder
Example) Kim Il-sung's family is also a Christian family
If there were words, prayers, and praises in the elder's family, how could a shaman from a god come out?
Could a dictator like Kim Il-sung have emerged?
Fearing and serving God.
I hope that family worship, recitation of the Word (meeting with Logos), prayer and praise will be restored in our homes.
2. We must love each other (verse 3).
These words are the fruit of God's blessing through healthy marital relationships and relationships with children.
Ex) Professor Anjin Yoo - “If there is the most unhappy person in the world, he has never been in love, and if there is the happiest person in the world, he is the person who is in love right now.”
Eric Fromm points out the big misconceptions of modern people about love in the book ‘The Art of Love’.
The idea is that 'it happens by itself'.
It takes constant effort and training to become a star recognized in the world.
Yuna Kim, who has been crowned the world's figure skating queen, is nicknamed the practice bug.
Sue-Jin Kang's feet, voted the best dancer in Germany, were more coarsely crushed than the feet of a farmer.
In order to rise to the ranks of stars and masters, you have to put in a lot of effort.
However, they make no effort to dig out the jewel of love in the treasure trove of happiness. Love requires constant training.
First, you must confess your love.
Unexpressed love is not love.
Express your love in words.
Ex) Rat experiment/ Research research by insurance companies
3. We must acknowledge each other's differences.
God made men and women different.
Personality differences are the number one reason for divorce through family strife today.
However, it is more accurate to view it as a difference in perception of gender rather than a personality difference.
The cause of family strife comes from not understanding each other's differences.
Dr. John Gray tells men and women to understand that they are different.
Men are problem-solving oriented, and women are relationship oriented.
Men want to be trusted, recognized, and praised, while women want attention, understanding, and empathy.
Men feel loved when they receive recognition and praise, and women feel loved when they receive attention and understanding.
A woman wants to fix a man's shortcomings, but a man wants to be recognized for who he is.
Example) The blind best begets the worst. / Marriage of a cow and a lion
4. You need to comfort and encourage.
Ex) The Big Man Series
Ex) A touching letter to an unemployed husband
Family Month is the last Sunday in May.
The secret to a happy family is to fear God.
is to love each other.
It is about acknowledging each other's differences, comforting and praising each other.
I pray in the name of the Lord that the flowers of happiness will bloom in all your homes.