Title: Happy married life
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happy married life
Genesis 1:27-28
God, who created all things, put Adam into a deep sleep, took a rib, drank Eve, and brought him to Adam to establish a family. It was God himself who made a matchmaking. People who are successful in life are successful in family life.
William B. Walter, the president of the famous American hotel 'Holiday Inn', which has chain stores in various palaces around the world, said four things that are essential to a successful person. “You must love God first, you must love your family second, you must love your country third, you must love your neighbor, and you must love the fourth.” Therefore, before we can succeed in anything, we must first live a happy, joyful and victorious life in family life and marital life.
1. A happy married life with a victorious life;
(1) Respect each other, love each other, understand each other.
Why did Medelushain create a woman from a man's rib in God?
① God did not make the head of a man for fear that a woman would become arrogant,
② I'm afraid I'll be too lustful
③ He did not make them out of men’s ears, lest he be too curious.
④ He did not make it out of a man’s mouth for fear of talking too much,
⑤ He didn't make a man's heart for fear of being jealous,
⑥ Don't make it with men's feet, because you're going around too much.
⑦ Because a woman is a woman, it is said that she was made from a man's ribs to respect her dignity and respect.
Even today, with the advanced civilization, a happy family with victorious people is a family that respects each other, cares for each other, and understands each other.
(2) A couple who develops love and adds pleasure.
Love is the beginning, not the completion, at the same time as marriage. Courtesy and manners, this is just the beginning, not the completion. Therefore, from the moment you get married, you should be in heat with deeper and more enjoyable love. While trying to find each other's sensitive parts and try to win their favor, the husband should break free from his old-fashioned face, and the wife should greet her husband with a smile in neat and bright clothes for her husband, and spend a lot of time between husband and wife.
"A wife's job is to love her husband, not to convert," said Billy Graham's wife Ruth Graham. Proverbs 5:18 says, “Rejoice in the wife of your youth,” and Hebrews 13:4 says, “Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled.” It is the enjoyment of love between the two of them. "Adam and his wife were both naked, but they were not ashamed." Therefore, the love of the flesh between husband and wife is "a mutual satisfaction, an act of nurturing one's own body, and an expression of love." You shouldn't.
(3) They are a couple looking for conditions of gratitude for each other by restraining themselves even when they are away.
For a family without temperance and gratitude, there is no happy family, and there is no grateful family. St. Augustine said, "If God had created woman to rule over man, He would have made woman out of Adam's head. If He had made woman a slave to man, He would have made woman from Adam's feet. But God made woman out of Adam's feet. By making a woman into a man's rib, this indicates that the human rights of men and women are equal. Therefore, men will be happy couples who live a victorious life by respecting women's human rights, controlling each other, and giving thanks." (1 Pet. 3:1-8, Ephesians 5:21-22, Titus 2:5).
(4) Couples who live positively and work together are happy couples who lead a victorious life.
Even if you live together for the rest of your life, there are people who live a negative life in conversation or life between husband and wife, and there are families who live the opposite life. There are people who live their whole lives without work, and there are couples who work until the heartbeat stops. But a couple who live a victorious life is a working family. They are a couple who live positively rather than negatively.
Not all, but mostly Americans;
First of all, don't talk.
Second, you do your own thing.
Third, do not rush and wait.
Jesus said, "Father works, and I work," and worked without even time to eat. The Apostle Paul said, "Those who do not want to work should not eat." Solomon said, "Let the lazy man learn from the ants."
(5) A married couple who has Jesus as the owner of their house and lives by faith live a life of victorious joy.
Psalm 128 says that the happiest family is the one that has the Lord, and Psalm 127 says that a house that is not allowed by the Lord cannot be mine, and it cannot exist unless it is a nation that God has allowed. Even if you have everything in the world, if you forsake Jesus, you will lose everything. Even if you lose everything in the world, if you accept Jesus as the Savior of your life, you will gain everything. As the Lord said, a house must be built on a rock so that it will not collapse even when the wind blows and floods (Matthew 7:24). I hope that all of us have Jesus as the owner of our house and live by faith and become a family that does not shake even when it rains, winds and floods come, a family that does not crumble, a family that does not fall apart, a family that enjoys the joy of marital life, and a happy couple.
2. A happy married life of Seungri;
① It is said that they are a couple who respect each other, cherish each other, and understand each other.
② They are said to be a couple who develop love and add pleasure.
③ It is said that they are a couple who are temperate even when they are away and find conditions of gratitude for each other.
④ It was said that they were a couple who lived positively and worked for each other.
⑤ They said that they are a married couple who live by faith with Jesus as their owner.
I pray that God's peace-making grace will fill your home and married life, and that you will have a victorious, happy married life.
After God created the heavens and the earth, God felt compassion for Adam's loneliness, and put him into a deep sleep, and took his ribs and made a wife, saying, "This is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh. "Therefore a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh. Adam and his wife were both naked, but they were not ashamed." Therefore, the family is a paradise of happiness created by God Himself. Martin Luther said, "It is a paradise in which loving couples are seen living together," and the literary writer Goethe said, "He who finds peace in his home is happy wherever he is."
There are three most sacred words in the English word.
First, 'heaven',
Second 'mother',
The third is 'home'.
Two of the three words belong to the family, the mother and the family. The reason why the home is sacred is that it is canonized because parents and children live together. John Howard Payne is said to have sang, "Come to me in a place of joy/My home is my only resting place." No matter how successful you are and how many things you own, if your home becomes a house where you sleep, become a boarding house, a restaurant, or a changing room, that life is a failure and a life in hell.
If we look at the causes of the collapse of a country, it is said that there are many divorces and the breakdown of families. William Hawking said that where there is no home, there can be no state, for it is the nuclear cells that make up history. Therefore, we must work together to develop the married couple that God has given us to be happier.
(1) It must be a family that has Jesus as its master.
It should be the house of Joshua, who said, “As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord” (Joshua 24:15). Psalm 127:1 “Unless the LORD builds the house, they labor in vain who build it; unless the LORD guards the city, the watchman stays watchful in vain.” Blessed is everyone who practices." In order for our family to become strong and blessed, we must first live with the Lord as the owner of our house.
"Do not be wise in yourselves. Fear the Lord and turn away from evil. It will be good for your body and nourish your marrow" (Proverbs 3:7-8). How precious are you? You said you fear the Lord, but the word 'fear' means "Fear God", that is, you fear God. There are many Christians among us who say they believe in Jesus and fear God, but do not fear God. It is at your own will. Some people say they are God. This is especially true of charismatics. Gentlemen, if we say we believe in God, we must fear God. This is the most fundamental issue in the life of faith.
It's okay if you don't go to church. It's a good Sunday too, so why didn't you go to the prize? Why didn't you go play golf? You can go hiking on a Sunday, play golf, travel, or do business. do anything But if you are not afraid of God, do it. If you fear God, can you go golfing without going to church on a Sunday?
In some ways, our faith fears God, so we keep Sundays, serve, tithe, pray, and evangelize. The only condition to be victorious in marital life is to have the Lord as the owner of our house.
(2) We must trust each other and increase our love.
"I Corinthians 13:7 says that love is believing in all things, but if there is one big vision in this world, it is that couples do not trust each other. Doubt between husband and wife is also the door to ruin. There must be affectionate faith, You must have financial faith, and you must have faith in your words.
Dr. Henry Powen also asked what was the secret to the love life of a wonderful couple for 40 years; "I tried to be kind to my wife, I tried to be honest." Kindness and faith are also shortcuts to happiness. And then you have to add love. When a couple mistakenly believes that the expression of love is complete with marriage, it brings misfortune. We should think of marriage as the beginning of love, and continue to develop love and affection before marriage (1 Corinthians 13:1-13).
Some people put on make-up to greet their husbands who come home from work with love, wear bright clothes, greet them with a welcome, and sometimes go out together and visit the house they used to go to when they were dating and drink tea. Said I lost That's why Billy Graham's wife, Ruth Graham, said, "A wife's job is to love her husband, not to convert." The causes of unhappy families are obvious. It comes from lack of faith, lack of love, lack of character, lack of wealth, lack of time, and lack of communication.
Barclay is happy when he works, happy when he has someone to love, and