Title: How to educate your children
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How to educate your children 1 Samuel 1:27-28
Among the God-given enterprises, the best enterprises are child enterprises.
Psalm 127:4 Children are an inheritance from the LORD, and the fruit of their womb is a reward.
The children of a young man are like arrows in the hands of a merchant.
He is the comfort and pride of his parents. Seohyun's parents, hug their children and pray for blessings.
There are too many things to be polluted in the world in which children must live. (Satan is attacking through culture.)
Proverbs 22:6 Teach a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it.
Have them recite the book of Proverbs.
Rousseau - There are two things I cannot guarantee until the day I die: health and children.
1 Samuel 1:27-28 When Hannah, a man of faith, prayed before God, she offered her son Samuel to God when she was 3 years old.
to grow in the temple. Growing up in faith according to her mother's faith, she becomes a great prophet of Israel.
They have great faith before being used in a great way before God.
1> I inherited my faith from my mother.
Samuel is a man of prayer. a humble person He is a worship oriented person. a person of obedience
Samuel was brought up under the spiritually very dark Eli Priest. - Not swayed by the environment.
Eli's priest, his two sons, Hophni and Phinehas, also fell - his mother's faith makes him great.
2> A child with a good soul prospers in everything.
When Hannah prayed before God, she did not pray for a leader in Israel.
But God, who heard Hannah's prayer, gave him a son and a leader of the nation of Israel.
3> My faith today is important, but the faith of my children is more important.
Samuel 8:1-3 Samuel's children did not follow their father's faith.
The Korean Church Today is important, but tomorrow is even more important.
The faith of the family is important today, but the faith of the children is more important.
A call to parents of faith
1> Do not anger your children.
Proverbs 23:13 Admonish the child, for he shall be beaten with a whip, and he shall not die.
# Parents of Child Violence - You reap what you sow in old age.
# Foolish parents who love their children so ignorantly. - Parents who let their children be neglected (restaurants, trains, chapels)
In order not to anger your child = change the language.
Among the communication methods, <I>-centered communication method. At the center of <you> there is a method of delivery.
I came in late without any news from my high school kid.
My phone battery ran out, and I was studying at the library and it was late.
<Me Center.I> Why are you so late? how worried I called all over the place and worried a lot about what was going on.
The child will feel sorry.
<Your center Y> Why are you like that? What time is it now? how much should i get when will you grow up
A child's thoughts are more terrifying than sorry. mother is tired of nagging I'm more angry than sorry.
I.Message = Study hard. it's all for you Do it before the opportunity runs out.
Message Y = My daughter is studying and studying is difficult, but Dad believes that you will do well.
In our Korean society, dialogue is difficult, labor-management negotiations are difficult, and violence is rampant between the ruling and opposition parties.
The reason for the separation between husband and wife and between father and son lies in the language habits of our society.
This is because they only assert themselves, such as “You are the problem, you should do this.”
The Y message is imperative and directive. I feel bad. A feeling of resentment arises and a feeling of discomfort and rejection arises.
The I message is receptive, positive and friendly.
In our society, the You message is common.
Say "Come in early" to your husband on the way to work. Most husbands don't even pretend to hear.
At this point, the only people who will say “yes, okay” favorably are probably the newlyweds.
I hear the message and change happens,
The You message of the command "Do this, do that" cannot change a person because it makes you reject it.
Hearing "Honey! Come in early", husbands usually don't come in early.
Rather, "Honey! Without you at night, I'm too scared to be alone",
Even by their protective instinct, they come in early. Let's have this wisdom.
Kim Ja-wook = "You're cool." “Come early.” "I'll be waiting for you." is more effective
In Luke 16, the father of the prodigal son did not rebuke or criticize the Y message.
I died and came back to life, lost and found again. to be touched.
2> Always teach your children the Word, call them, and bless them.
It is an urgent and tense world. Give your parents peace of mind. And bless you.
Impatience is exploited by Satan.
<Don't be a parent to compare.> = There is no difference between horses 1, 2, 3, etc. on the racetrack.
It is not that people work hard, but God should bless it.
Teach and recite the proverbs.
3> Teach them to be loved before God.
1 Samuel 2:26 As Samuel grew, he found favor with God and men more and more. = The reason is obedience.
1 Samuel 15:22 To obey is better than sacrifice, and to hear is better than the fat of rams.
Parents do not understand the culture of growing up children.
A certain rural grandmother came to Seoul and took a taxi to her daughter's house and paid 5,000 won.
Give me 2500 won. Why don't you just give me this? "Hey man, it's the two of you to blame."
When the grandmother goes, she takes a taxi again.
The fee was 5000 won. 3300 won. Why are you giving me this?
You bastard, I saw you start at 1700 won.
Rockefeller's mother's will
1> Keep Sunday.
2> Pay tithing.
3> Love your neighbor.