Title: Let's Build a Happy Family Life!
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God established the family, and God's love and providence for the family exist.
Why did God create Eve from a rib? If it's made from leg bones, I think I'll have a habit of stepping on men, if it's made from arm bones, it's likely to point at me often, if it's made from skull bones, it's like a decoration, and if it's made from jaw bones, the fights will never stop. If you make it from your shoulder bones, you will stumble, and if you make it from your neck, you will be proud. You made it out of ribs to embrace and love you. This means that Adam and Eve are a perfect unity that cannot be separated from each other, and that a woman is a being that should be cherished by a man, and that he is a personal equivalent to a man. The family is established by God, and God is the owner.
Psalm 127:1 “Unless the LORD builds the house, those who build it labor in vain; unless the LORD guards the city, the watchman keeps awake in vain.”
In today's text 2:18-25, Adam said, "This is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; and she shall be called woman, because it is taken from a man" (verse 23).
Here we can discover the principles of building happy and healthy families.
First, the home should be a place to promote self-esteem. What is <self esteem>? Self-esteem has two components: self confidence and self worth. Self worth is “I am a person of worth” and “I am a person who likes others and is worthy of love.” Self confidence is thinking ‘I am a capable person’.
Second, the home is where the <language of love> is. Gary D. chapman, in his book The Five Love Languages, said that the language of love is words of recognition, time together, gifts, service, and touch.
As Mark Twain once said, "Once I get a compliment, I can do it for two months." Proverbs 18:21 “Death and life are in the power of the tongue” Proverbs 12:25 “Anxiety in a man’s heart is troubled by it, but a good word rejoices in it.” Proverbs 15:1 ‘A gentle answer turns away anger. He said 'God
Abuse includes active abuse and passive abuse. In the old days, our ancestors gave their children nicknames such as 'gae dungi', 'pig' and 'kimchi soup' because boys only need to roll them to grow well. Some even say that women should lose once every three days. In fact, the word 'woman (woman)', which refers to a woman, is a compound word of seven (七) and long side to hit. Abusive words should not be spoken.
There are children who are discouraged and children who are encouraged. Disappointed children are characterized by anxieties, worries and concerns, and they are negative in everything they see. Low self-esteem, self-deprecation, the idea of an unhappy child, introversion, and a sense of helplessness (the choice is difficult, what do you do?). We believe that the characteristics of an encouraged child are an optimistic future, high self-esteem, an extroverted child, a sense of self-efficacy, a sense of self-motivation, and a happy child.
Seongmun Family 10 Commandments
1. I will not hold my anger until the sun goes down. 2. I will praise you for one thing a day.
3. I will remember my first love in difficult times. 4. I will not compare others to you.
5. Even if we fight, I will not touch your pride.
6. I will honor myself in front of others, and I will only tell you my faults when there are two of them.
7. No matter what happens, I will not give up or give up.
8. I will think of you before me.
9. I will ask for your understanding in advance when inviting friends or relatives.
10. We will gladly welcome your guests to the house.
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