Title: Misconceptions about love
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1 Corinthians 13:6
“I am a married woman. I have two kids. But my co-worker, a man who is 8 years younger than me, loves me. He graduated from a four-year college, and I'm in middle school. I am blind in one eye. I've heard that he looks young and cute. Do men and women who love really need nothing? After my first love, this man is my second love. We haven't dated yet... but the company knows that he and I like each other. The boss told him to be careful with me as a married woman.
My marriage wasn't made out of love, but because I was kidnapped and had a child while imprisoned for three days... I've never loved my husband. It's been two days, beating, nagging, and having no vitality. Still, I lived with my children. Now I want to be happy too, what should I do? please give me an answer I am 35 years old. Well, my husband knows that I don't love him either. I wish I could die in love with someone I really love, even for just one day. We went to court several times to get a divorce. But my husband didn't. You'd rather tell me to run away...
Does my co-worker really love me? Sometimes I feel that way. The thing is, I love him to death. The thoughts of that person never leave my head except for sleeping hours. What? I don't think I can live without him now. I look forward to an answer that will cool your frustrated heart. From a married woman who suffers from the pain of love...
Guys, why do these misunderstandings arise? Because they don't really know what love is. The story of the married woman introduced earlier should not be expressed as love, but as an affair. Even the Bible does not call the protagonists of these stories as lovers, but as those who commit adultery and commit adultery. Of course, it would be quite bad for the parties to hear.
Not only the protagonists of this story, but also today's youth, there are a lot of people who have this misunderstanding. In other words, they confuse love with infidelity. That is why they live together or have premarital sex before marriage. And when other people look at me with unpretentious eyes, they say something like this. “We are in love. Having a physical relationship with loved ones is not a sin, but a natural phenomenon that God has given to humans. Don’t be jealous of us for nothing.”
Ladies and gentlemen, the Bible does not describe love when a man and a woman have sexual intercourse before marriage. The Bible also describes it as adultery and a sin. And in the Old Testament, anyone who commits adultery before marriage should be stoned to death, and sex before marriage is strictly prohibited. But today too many people have premarital sex. And he rationalizes himself by attaching the word love to it.
Even those who have committed numerous sins of adultery do not need repentance as long as there is only the word love. They don't even ask God for forgiveness. Rather, “God, I have nothing but love. Is it a sin to love?” On the contrary, there is a tendency to astonish God. This phenomenon is due to a very thorough misunderstanding of the noble love that the Bible speaks of. Perhaps the devil misunderstands God's noble love, leading people to be very brave in committing sexual iniquity and injustice.
Today's TV soap operas try to justify an affair in the name of love. However, at least Christians must have a correct understanding of love amidst the flood of popular culture based on love. Without this realization, frequent contact with such media will lead to the development of worldly values in one's mind. He rationalizes himself by speaking the sweet language of love, even though he obviously commits fornication.
In this way, Satan uses the human psychology to hide one's sins, to impute one's sins to others, or to rationalize one's own sins. That is why, by giving the best wrapping paper in this world called love, we are easily corrupting people and advancing the work of Satan easily. But don't be fooled. God's love does not mean rejoicing in injustice.
Today's text also talks about the definition of love. “Love does not delight in iniquity” My friends, love is not injustice. It is absurd to commit an injustice such as adultery and attach God's love to it. It doesn't make sense. It is a misrepresentation of the Bible. Moreover, rejoicing and loving injustice can have the wrong result of encouraging injustice.
For example, two children fought. One child bullied and beat another child. But the child who hit is my child and the child who was beaten is someone else's. What would you do if you were a parent in this case? “Oh, my darling, you are so brave. Yes, men shouldn't be beaten by others. Do you have to hit others?” Say something like this, give him a loving hug to his child, or say, "He's going to be a general!" and condoning it is not love.
Also, the text says, “Love rejoices with the truth.” In other words, love is to love the truth and follow the truth, not to follow false and deceived ideas. But some people say this. "It doesn't matter what you believe. It doesn't matter what the doctrine is. What matters is love."
While saying this, there are those who want to go hand in hand with anyone and shoulder to shoulder with anyone. This is the basic idea of the so-called Ecumenical movement. Catholicism seems to be a bit harsh in this respect. They casually join hands with Buddhism for any event. So, I go to the temple after being invited, and I also invite those people to the church.
Christian love is always based on truth. Christian love is always based on justice. Love, apart from truth and justice, is just a light apricot. It is not the taste of true love. Love that is not accompanied by truth and justice is corrupted love, and eventually stinks. Dear saints, do you want to have real love? Wear the truth and make love. Love with justice.
But no matter how much love you have with justice and truth, use good ways to show it. When dealing with people who do not fully understand the love of God that the Bible speaks of today, do not have an arrogant heart. Do not criticize or despise their ignorance. Be more patient, be more patient. Ask God to correct their wrong thinking. Think back to the days of frog tadpoles and try to understand them.
Satan uses the best wrapping paper to make his lies look like truth and his injustices like justice. Satan softens words. Smile kindly. Disguise yourself as an apostle of love. However, there are some Christians who receive God's love and understand God's love correctly, but use the wrong wrapping paper to express that love.
For example, she makes an impression on her husband who doesn't believe in Jesus, opens her eyes, and says, "Satan, in the name of Jesus, I command you to go away." As a result, the husband goes for Jesus if it is. Of course, pray that loudly when your husband is not in sight. But when your husband is right in front of you, put on a sweet smile. Pick a good word and use it. Be as kind as you can.
When you go to a bar, women seduce men. Their words are aegyo
It's iron-on-iron flounder. I'm trying to melt a man's soy sauce with a single word. A wife looks at her husband and says, “Baby! Calling bro!” and the bar girl saying, “Baby! Oppa!” There is a difference between the words, even the same words. Have you ever heard such a charming voice? Men are deceived by that voice and aegyo, giving them money and giving them their whole heart. In the end, the unkind wife loses her husband. Then he came to church and said, “God, have you lost your husband? What do I do?” and shed tears.
Even though Christians have true love with truth and justice, they often lose to the lies and unrighteous Satan because of the wrong methodology. So, the precious things are taken from Satan. Therefore, it is good for us to instill kindness in the body in order to instill the love of God. It is necessary to speak softly and make a kind expression. Of course, that's not to say that you should be sarcastic. Our precious love should not be misunderstood. Realizing the importance of packaging and design, let's spread true love effectively.
Jesus said this. “Be wise as serpents and innocent as doves.” (Matthew 10:16) Dear saints, we must be chaste. We must keep true love, not infidelity, injustice, or lies. We must practice love based on justice and truth. But you have to be wiser in how to put it into practice. Let's pray to God for such wisdom. So, let's work together to make our love bear more beautiful fruits.