Title: Parent Education and Child Education (II): Model
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4. Hear, Israel, the LORD our God is the only LORD.
5. You shall love the LORD your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your strength.
6. Keep these words that I am commanding you today in your heart,
7. You will teach your children diligently, and you will preach these words when you sit at home, when you walk on the road, when you lie down and when you get up.
8. You shall also tie it to your wrist as a sign, and put it between your forehead as a mark.
9. You shall also write it on the doorpost of your house and on the outside door.
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1. Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right.
2. Honor your father and mother, for this is the first commandment with promise.
3. For it may be well with you, and you will live long on the earth.
4. Also, fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and admonition of the Lord.
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Title: Parent Education and Child Education (II): Model
Text: Deuteronomy 6:4-9, Ephesians 6:1-4
How successful are the prestigious Carnegie public loans? It's not without a halo, but like other groups, there are those who succeed and those who fail. Among Carnegie graduates, there is this passage in the 'secret of success' for successful people. 'Expert knowledge or skill contributes only 15% to success. The remaining 85% was in the power of meeting good people and gaining from them'. In particular, they are said to have done 'Three Visitings' well. 'visit of mouth' (commendation), 'visit of hand' (letter of love), and 'visit of foot' (help needed). It is said that the secret of success lies in 'entry', 'handmade' and 'footed' The earlier you meet such a good person, the sooner you will enter the door to success. It reminds me of meeting at home, church, and school. It is the role of Christian parents to carry out in the field of life.
1. It is a characteristic of parents' education of their children. 1) Faith and obedience according to the words of the Bible. Parents themselves must have the attitude of believing and obeying the Bible (Deuteronomy 6:4-6, Psalm 119:105). 2) A more serious understanding of the situation is required. Since the home is an area to which almost everything is exposed, there are bound to be quite complex causes intertwined. It requires close attention, observation and consideration. It requires tolerance and tolerance, as well as concrete expressions of love. 3) It should include practical training. You can also try one-way lectures in a sermon style or mutual discussion rather than persuasion. It is necessary to re-evaluate existing habits and lifestyles and, if necessary, to practice new ways of life. Reflections on the past and new attempts are needed. You can pray and practice the guidance and help of the Holy Spirit. A continual change in Christ is presupposed.
2. The biblical goal of your child's education. Maintaining peace in the home and creating a sense of unity with the family. But that alone is not enough. 1) We must help them fear God. We need to help them to understand God's love and to love and serve God. This is why training in the life of gratitude is necessary. 2) You must cultivate respect for yourself (self-esteem). It reminds us that we are beings that resemble the image of God. We need to help them to know that they are the object of God's love and to recognize that they are beings that are receiving God's expectations. 3) You must cultivate respect for others. The commandment to ‘love your neighbor as yourself’ is the main point of Old Testament ethics (Leviticus 19:18) and the root of the New Testament’s “new commandment” (John 13:34). The love of all three is reminiscent of the love of the Trinity.
3. Parental influence is an example. We need education by example. Being an example doesn't mean you have to be perfect. It is an example for maturity. It takes honest confession and humility. It is an example of imperfect Christians living with consideration and respect for each other, experiencing the relationship of love and forgiveness that God gives them together. The relationship between parent and child is a more intimate and open relationship. We must not forget that almost everything is exposed in front of our children. Just as it cannot be hidden from God, it cannot be hidden between husband and wife, nor between parents and children. That is why we need to train together for each other's development and maturity. But being imperfect parents, example alone is not enough. It requires control, dialogue and interaction. We need to work together to draw a better image.