Title: Respected Parents
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respected parents
When children behave rudely without knowing how to respect adults, many parents use abusive language, claiming to change their children's habits.
In this case, rather than correcting the child's mistakes, there is a possibility of turning the child into a crooked child who fears the parents.
Children who have been hurt by their parents' verbal abuse feel extremely anxious and lose confidence as they see themselves as helpless and worthless.
On the other hand, there are children who talk back and forth or stare at their parents without being discouraged even when their parents are angry and yelling. Parents who are angry at this will not hesitate to beat the child and try to fix the child, right?
However, in this case too, instead of changing the child's habit, only the parents can't overcome their temper and pour out harsh violence and abusive language. So the child who can no longer confront his parents will release his anger from the wrong place.
That's why they're doing bad things to bully or tease their friends. As a result, he is increasingly being bullied by his friends at school or in the neighborhood, and only develops a more perverse personality.
The conclusion that comes from going through this process is the common fact that there is always a problem parent behind the problem child.
When parents set the example of living according to the Word in their lives, bad children are not likely to come out.
To borrow a more straightforward expression, the wrong behavior of children can be seen as the result of the wrong life committed by their parents. That is why the Bible commands parents to teach the Word of God to their children whenever they are sitting at home, lying down, or walking on the street.
He also reminds us that even if we raise a whip, we must do it with love based on the Word.
Therefore, parents who reach out to their children with the word and the whip will forever remain in their hearts as respected parents, not as fearful parents.