Title: Rubber bands for men, waves for women
Men and women are different beings. Understanding the differences can lead to a good relationship. Getting out of a slump is different and recovering from that slump is different. Men move horizontally and women move vertically (up and down) on the spot.
Today's text shows what a man's slump is. Elijah said that Jezebel would kill him, and he ran away for about a day. There, he received God's comfort and recovered quickly. It's like a rubber band.
So let's see how men and women are different through how men and women fall into a slump and recover.
1. a man like a rubber band
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Men tend to walk away until pulled back. While there is a desire to be close to a woman, he also has a desire to move away from him. Women only move away for a reason, but men tend to fall in love but instinctively move away from them. This is because men, by nature, have a desire for independence and freedom.
Therefore, a woman should not feel guilty when a man tries to get away. just let it go If you hang on, you will never come back.
An example of the wisest person in this regard is the father of the prodigal son. As shown in Luke 15, the prodigal son asked to share his portion, and he did. And when he returned from his debauchery, he greeted me warmly.
Men have a trajectory of going away and coming back. If you don't give him a chance to get away, his masculinity will all disappear. Therefore, women! To make a healthy man, let it go. Then it will come back with fresh wildness.
When you see a man who goes and comes back, he might look like a wolf. However, this wolf instinct has nothing to do with will. Dating a man is like "dancing with a wolf."
In summary, a wise woman behaves like this:
Allow a man to distance himself from a woman!
And don't react too harshly when you're about to fall!
Finally, when such a man comes back, welcome him warmly!
Men also have cycles. The cycle is a cycle that comes and goes. Women! I hope that you will become a woman who embraces life like this poor rubber band.
2. A woman like a wave
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Women are like waves. Because it is like a wave, it goes up and down in place. The image of an angel when ascending, and the image of a devil when descending. When it rises high, it is full of love, and when it descends, it is full of poison.
Therefore men! Don't swear when a woman falls to the bottom. It's because it's an instinct that has nothing to do with the will that a woman feels down. Don't take a woman's mood up or down as a personality, understand it as a condition. Leave it still when you go to the floor. Will come back again.
When Nimja is down, it is when you feel helpless because the problem has not been solved. Therefore, a man can recover only when the problem is solved. But don't try to give a solution to a woman going down because it's just a condition, not for a reason. Share your feelings and just let it go and it will come back.
One of the things men often say to women is, “How many times are you repeating this? It's already been resolved." But this is the cry of a man who does not understand that a woman's slump is not caused by a problem.
A man's love and consideration cannot solve a woman's fundamental problem. Only God can. It's not the man's responsibility for the woman to be down. Man is not God. Just accept it. But don't worry. No woman is ever down on the floor. It tends to come up on its own.
Women get sick when they can't go to the bottom of their minds. When a woman wanders on the floor, it's time to clean up her emotions. Just as men have the right to be alone and to be free, so women have the right to go to the bottom of their emotions.
Ladies! When a man wants to go away by himself, give the word of God! man! Encourage a woman with warm, upbuilding words when she's at the bottom of her emotions.
For example, "Spring exists because of you, and it is pushed against your beauty!" Repeat this every time the seasons change! Then the woman will struggle with happiness even though she knows it's a lie.
In 1 Peter 3:7 it says, "Husbands, live with your wives according to knowledge. I am a weaker vessel, and be honored, so that your prayers may not be blocked." It is a teaching to understand the attributes of women and respect them as weak vessels.
Men respect women, and serve women well according to knowledge!
Women leave men alone and leave room for them to come back!
When you do this, a happy family and a beautiful family will be created. The end.