Title: Ten Commandments for Couples
Love each other and build a happy family.
It is a lesson that will last a lifetime.
First, don't be angry with both of them at the same time.
If you get angry together, it will explode like a volcano, so if one person gets angry, the other person should sit still. If you want to be angry, you have to pay it later.
Second, do not shout except when the house is on fire.
If there is a fire, shout ‘It’s fire!’, but other than that, speak slowly and do not raise your voice. It's easy to talk, but can't you hear your voice when you're angry? But it is meant to be.
Third, although you have eyes, do not look at your faults, and you have mouths but do not speak of mistakes
It means that you should not tear down everything that you have eyes, and don't expose your mistakes because you have mouths.
Fourth, do not compare your wife or husband with others.
“Hey, what’s your dad like this, why are you like this?” “Anyway, your mom is thin and has a good style, so why are you so fat? This is a serious blow to your self-esteem.
Fifth, do not stab each other in sore spots or curse parents or siblings.
There are places where it hurts. All have weaknesses. No one will like it if you stab it or swear at the other person's parents or siblings.
Sixth, do not be angry until the sun goes down, and do not go to bed with anger.
I said that when I asked one of our church's sisters and fathers to tell us the secret to living happily in a family. The bible says that when you are angry, do not sin, and do not let the sun go down on your anger. So, after a fight between husband and wife, when the sun goes down, the husband says, “Honey, the sun goes down.” Then the wife said, “Okay.” And the next time I eat dinner, I'll release all the minutes. The Bible tells us not to be angry until the sun goes down.
Seventh, do not forget your first love and find something to praise.
How can a person always be in love when they first fall in love? If you don't live for a while, being blunt is love. However, in the midst of such circumstances, they always praised the other person, discovering their strengths, and always encouraging the other person because they fell in love and met each other for the first time.
Eighth, do not cheat or lie.
If you deceive each other or lie to each other, you feel betrayed.
Ninth, break your pride and repent first.
This is hard work. It is very difficult to repent first after a fight between husband and wife.
In general, men tend to repent first and women to repent later. However, if there is a fight between husband and wife, one must first say that the wrong person is wrong.
Tenth, we must believe in and rely on God, who is the founder, officiant, and mediator of the family system, and always pray for God's help.
May your family be prosperous, love each other, and build a happy family.