Title: There is no trauma in love
On Saegi (1230) There is no trauma in love (Matthew 5:7)
<Respect the beneficiary's personality>
A worker in a public institution gives out with a high posture when handing out. Then the recipient receives the material, but feels robbed. On the other hand, some saints give out 'words of humble encouragement' and say, "I am grateful that I can share." Also, some saints give out “warm facial expressions” as they give out. When giving to a neighbor in need, respect the recipient's personality as much as possible.
When the Indian pioneer Vinova Babbe was young, a shabby young man came to beg, and his mother gave him, as always, some money. When he returned, Babbe said as if arguing. "Mom! If you give it to a normal man like that, it will only make your habit worse, right? Do you really need to help someone you really need to help?” Then my mother said "Hey. How will we judge who will help and who will not? Isn't it our job to respect those people as much as possible and do our best to help them?" His mother's compassion eventually made him a character.
Do not ignore those who are having a hard time, but respect them as much as possible and treat them like angels. It is the attitude that restores the image of God within oneself. The Christian concept of blessing is not to become better than others, but to become a source of blessing like Abraham. To be a source of blessing means to make others prosper and further exalt others. In that way, while making others prosper, raising them as much as possible, and doing ‘material relief’, do ‘honour relief’ as well.
There are several important principles of practice so that there is no damage to the character and self-esteem of the missionary when doing missions. First, ask your needs as soon as possible. Missionaries often have something they need, but they can't say it. Second, sponsor and soon forget. If you keep remembering what you gave, the missionary will not be able to raise his head with a heart of debt. Third, support and thank God. "God! Thank you for giving me a heart to give.” When we respect the person of the beneficiary, that help is a noble help to win the heart of God.
"There is no trauma in love"
Have big dreams and visions. Whether you believe in Jesus and become a character, or if you believe in Jesus and create a character, fulfill one of two things. A holy dream will come true only if you do not give up. Even in the midst of trials, never give up on your holy dreams If you don't give up on your holy dream, trials become an urgent, temporary pathway to greater blessings. As you work toward your dreams and visions like that, you will finally be blessed and do a lot of God's work, and do a lot of missions and almsgiving.
With coexistence as the highest value, realize that God is all from the same root, and try to understand, respect, love, and live together. Everyone is responsible for love towards everyone. God has placed you in your present position to take on that responsibility. Be a messenger of love on the spot. To love is hard, but not to love is even harder. Making others happy makes me happy. When we love and dedicate ourselves to each other, the possibilities of grace and blessing are infinite in that relationship.
One day, when a rich English boy drowned in a pond, a poor swimmer saved him. The two soon became friends. After a while the rich boy said: “Fleming! what is your dream I really want to hear it!” The poor boy said without thinking. “My dream? My dream is to go to London to study medicine!” said the rich boy. “Fleming! Will you grant me my wish?” Fleming said. "What! If you can listen, I will listen to you.” Then the rich boy said: “I want to tell Daddy to help you study medicine! Please grant my wish!”
In the end, the poor boy granted the rich boy's wish, and with the help of his family, he studied medicine in London. And finally, penicillin, the greatest discovery of the 20th century, was discovered by the famous Alexander Fleming. One day, Fleming hears that a friend of a wealthy family is critical of lung disease. Fleming rushed with penicillin and managed to save the friend. The friend who survived that time was Winston Churchill, a World War II hero.
A loving and devoted reciprocal relationship is a treasure trove of infinite possibilities. So, help one another and encourage the faith. God created saints for good works (Ephesians 2:10). And for God's good works, he still challenges with the Word. If you draw the best sketch of life through love and devotion according to God's purpose of creation, God creates the best masterpiece through that sketch. Just as there is no trauma in prayer and there must be fruit, so also the touch of love is free of trauma and must have a brilliant reward.
When I receive missionary letters from missionaries, I sometimes think, “I wish I had not seen them…”. This is because the difficult missionary field continues to grow after seeing it. If you pray like that, there are saints who sometimes appear like comets to meet the needs of missionaries. The strange thing is that they are mostly silently devoted. Some people don't even know their faces, and some people send a thank-you email or text message, but they don't even reply. Also, when many people express their gratitude, they say, "I'm rather grateful?" noble spirits.
God will not put their love on a credit, and will repay them miraculously someday. No one knows how the future will unfold. However, if you have a compassionate heart and spread your hands of love and devotion, you will know one thing. It is the fact that the life after that will be a much more mature, beautiful and blessed life than the life before it.