Title False Love Concept/Faith Column
Content: Wrong concept of love / Faith column
There are things that are most important to a person. It is the feeling of love. For anyone going through life, "love" is what they need most. In Korean, life, people, and love are said to have originated from the same etymology. It means that love is absolutely necessary for those who live. People and love can never be considered inseparable.
But man is not inherently love. The Bible says "God is love." True love comes from God. So it can be said that love covers a multitude of faults. How can humans cover so many faults? Only God can cover a multitude of faults.
Love is a classy magic glasses.
Even if things and environments do not change
Beautifully transforming thinking and vision
Love is the great whisper of God.
Love is great indeed. Nevertheless, today the word love flies up and down too lightly in the mouths of many people. That's because many people mistake things that aren't love for love. What is the wrong concept of love that misleads people?
"Possession" is not love. Seeing the object I love as an object to satisfy my desires, loving cannot be true love. Rather, this prior love is not true love.
"Indifference" is not love. A person who strives to love must be concerned not only with the physical needs of the loved one, but also with their mental and spiritual needs. A thoughtful attitude that doesn't put the word "busy" in your mouth when it comes to the one you love is the true attitude of love.
“Intemperance” is not love. It is not love that unconditionally wraps up the object you love and prevents you from finding the right moral direction. Remembering that love sometimes blinds people's eyes, and putting all effort into making love on a large scale is the true form of love.
“Excessive control” is not love. An environment that makes you overly scrutinize your loved one is not an environment in which love dominates. Where there is love, there must be true freedom. Excessive control is an undesirable tool that deeply undermines creativity in life. A true love is the way you cultivate creativity with love that does not lose your freedom.
Many people today are discussing love with the wrong concept of love. And this false concept of love is widely spread in marriage, friendship, heterosexual relationship, and father-son relationship. Why is this happening? This is because people are not deeply aware of the fact that “love must start with God”. We must never forget the fact that “we must start from God in the matter of love to climb the first step toward true love.”