Title Husbands Like This
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On the occasion of Wife's Sunday, let's learn how husbands should treat their wives and carry on the cause through the teachings of the apostle Peter. It is true that we still have the root of a cultural bitterness that despises women by being bound by the masculine and feminine ideology that has been firmly maintained for hundreds of years. By the way, ‘male respectable woman’ is an abbreviation for ‘a man must be respectful of a woman in order to be respected’. It is a funny story, but it must be said that the momentum of the husbands fortress has not been broken, but has been completely broken, and it is an era where wives take notice. These days, men do not hesitate to say that the only way to survive at home is to take care of their wives. It has become a world where no one has survived outside the eyes of his wife. The era of spring-autumn warring States of men and women has already passed. Now, you have to be alert, so you can eat and buy at home.
For couples who are thrown into the flow of this time, the Bible suggests a consistent relationship setting. Husbands are to love their wives as their own bodies, and wives are to obey their husbands as slaves to their masters. Rather than ‘a woman should obey a man’, as long as ‘a husband is on his side (my side), not on someone else’s side’, it is necessary to establish an obedient relationship with the ‘lord’. So, in today's text, we begin by calling "Husbands!" Then, “Do it like this (synonymous conjunction).” Here, 'in this way' is a sign of 'and those who become husbands' just as a wife should obey her husband. Here Peter offers three things.
First: Treat your wives according to your knowledge.
Second: You must live with your wife.
Cohabitation here (συνοικε?ν) also means ‘living together’, but it also means ‘taking sexual responsibility’. This mantra is also detailed in 1 Corinthians 7:1-5. Don't deny each other's demands. Married couples are not to be in control of their own bodies, but to agree to behave as one body. The female hormone (estrogen) makes you feel feminine. When this is lacking, they become masculine and become wild, militant and fighter temperament. Therefore, this hormone is very important for women, and it is said that a large amount is secreted and supplied to the body when sexual satisfaction is achieved. That's what Goethe said. “You can tell what kind of person a husband is by looking at his wife’s face,” he said. In other words, the wife's face should not be taken care of by cosmetic companies or plastic surgeons, but by the husband.
Third: You must know that your wife is a weaker vessel.
God made man out of dust. Humans have the fragility of the soil, but among them, women are more fragile. If you think of a woman as just a jar of red pepper paste or a jar of soybean paste, you're in trouble. The most beautiful words in the world are heaven (heaven), mother and home (home). What they have in common is life, peace, and safety. 21C futurist Alvin Toffler, in a book called future shock, said that religion, life, and family are the strongest and most rapidly challenged in the 21st century. How will you protect these three from the harsh current? Maximize your wife's worth. When there is a wife, there is a mother, when there is a mother, there is a family, and when there is a mother, heaven is shown.
In conclusion, let's apply the love method proposed by Gary Chapman to wife love. ① Do skinship often. ② Give frequent compliments. ③ Spend time together often. ④ Give gifts often. ⑤ First, be kind. So, when a relationship of respect and obedience is established as a couple, we will achieve home heaven. When such a relationship is established, prayer will not be cut off. I hope that our home will become a beautiful home where prayer breathes and love and obedience are built up.