The secret to overcoming a sense of inferiority
1. Introduction
Lee Jong-hwan, Lee Sang-byeok, Han Seon-kyo, Lim Seong-hoon, and Seo Yoo-seok are popular TV and radio hosts. They are people who have been in broadcasting for a long time. Why are these people loved by so many people? I think the reason lies in their <naturalness!>. Of course, there are professional skills and showmanship, but I think it is in an attitude that is relatively unobtrusive, unpretentious, if you make a mistake, if you make a mistake, if you don't know, you don't know what you are.
People like that kind of naturalness. People want to have a natural attitude everywhere. But in real life, people are not very natural. At various meeting places where people meet, face-to-face meetings, relatives' gatherings, neighborhood meetings, business meetings, and first-time introductions, people are unnatural, stiff, awkward, stumbling, and inconsistent.
To be natural is to be relaxed, to be generous, to be proud, to be at peace, not to be timid, not to be impatient, and to be warm. Why do people want naturalness in the inside, but unnatural in reality? I think it's because of inferiority.
2. What is inferiority?
Inferiority is a feeling of being inferior or inferior to others in all aspects of life such as education, family, appearance, ability, dignity, recognition, economic level, importance, value, etc., or feeling anxious about such thoughts. Inferiority is, in a word, self-distrust. Doubts about yourself. Therefore, feeling inferior is an evil emotion that devours confidence and is a negative attitude in life that must be overcome.
3. What are the causes of inferiority complex?
As the human mind is complex and subtle, the cause of the feeling of inferiority is also complex and subtle, so it cannot be said with a short answer <This is the cause of the feeling of inferiority>. However, scholars say that the feeling of inferiority stems from the physical, mental, and spiritual wounds and abuse suffered during the <infancy-childhood>.
A person who grew up without being recognized and praised by people. who suffered from poverty. A person who grew up in a broken family. If you have a disabled sibling. A person who has always been compared to others in terms of appearance, movement, study, and quickness. etc.
4. How do feelings of inferiority affect our lives?
“For what kind of heart is, so is the great man,” he said, Proverbs 23:7. It is self-evident that a person with a sense of inferiority cannot be generous and natural. What is the attitude toward life of a person who harbors a feeling of inferiority?
first. I have no confidence. When you ask how are you doing these days, the answer is always yes. I just live every day like that. And it becomes a life that ends just like that. Sometimes there may be confidence that is faked by forceful Chunhyang, but there is no real confidence in the person inside it.
second. Always compare yourself to others. Pride and humiliation are brothers from the root of inferiority. If you are a little weaker than you, you feel proud of yourself, and if you are just a little stronger than you, you feel humiliated.
third. I live with negative thoughts. i can't I can't. I have no academic background, I don't have a good family, I don't look too good, anyway, I can't, no, no! murmur and live. I live a helpless life.
5. The secret to overcoming feelings of inferiority
first. Acknowledge the fact that I have inferiority complexes (Fact!). let's take a look at me Let's clearly and concretely reveal the identity of the inferiority complex that captivates me. And even if the cause of that feeling of inferiority is something you hate to remember, admit it as a fact!
second. Have a positive belief that I can overcome feelings of inferiority through faith. Everything in this world doesn't really matter if you bump into it. My aesthetic problem is the problem, but I really like it! Let's stick together! And when you roll up your arms, you'll quickly find out that it's not a big deal. Go out with an active belief that you can do it!.
third. See the text. God is my strength. There are various forces (Energy=Power=Strength) in the universe. There are Atomic Energy, Electronic Energy, Psychologic Energy, Spiritual Energy and above all, Ontologic Energy. Believe that God is with you with power beyond all these strengths and live!.
6. Closing story
Feeling of inferiority is not an emotion that pleases God. must be overcome.
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