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Contents October 10 Mark 10:1-12
Topic: Keep your home.
Because the Lord has clearly spoken about divorce today, we will continue with this text today.
I want to convey the word of God, but rather than focusing on divorce, I want to emphasize the importance of family.
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First of all, there are two communities God created on this earth.
1. home
2. Church
※ What about home? When the family collapses, there is no hope. Therefore, Satan is intent on breaking this (family).
⊙ In the midst of a great crisis in which the family is now dismantled in Korea
1) The climate of not wanting to marry
2) An unwillingness to have children
3) The climate of thinking about divorce easily
4) A climate to tolerate homosexuality
We should always look to the Word of God as our value standard when it comes to problems and choices.
※ Because only God is absolutely good
1) What does the Bible say about marriage? Marriage was created by God, and Adam did not like being alone, so he made a helper.
A man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.
ㅇIt is not good to be alone / A man leaves his parents and becomes one with his wife
A man and a man A woman and a woman are not a marriage made by God
The Bible Makes It Clear - Homosexuality is a Sin and God's Judgment
2) What does the Bible say about children? Psalm 127:3
Behold, children are an inheritance from the LORD.
The fruit of the womb is his reward; the children of a young man are like the arrows of a hunter's tradition.
The Bible teaches that having many children is a blessing.
ㅇ When the state policy says not to have children
ㅇ Seoul Bus Advertisement The best gift for a child is a younger brother.
ㅇHaving children and having many children is a blessing (be fruitful and multiply and fill the earth). This is God's intention.
3) A climate that facilitates divorce (Mark 10: 6--9)
ㅇ People should not share what God has joined together.
ㅇDivorce is something God hates and forbids
○ The Pharisees asked Jesus - Is it right to divorce your wife? (To make Jesus difficult)-
ㅇNo - Then why don't you keep the Mosaic Law?
ㅇYes - accusing me of being someone who ignores the importance of family
ㅇ Wisdom of the Lord - In the Bible (What about Moses? - Write a divorce certificate and throw it away - There is such a story in the Bible)
◎ By the way, asking to write a divorce certificate does not permit divorce
◎ The Lord did this - Moses allowed it because of your hardened heart.
◎ What does it mean? In the time before Moses, women were not guaranteed human rights.
Therefore, men just throw them away, bring them back and live with them, and if they don't like it, they kick it out, and then the woman's life will be ruined.
○ Why were you abandoned? reason for divorce
ㅇBurn the rice
ㅇ Putting too much salt in the side dish
ㅇ The house is not cleaned
ㅇ Talking back to my husband
ㅇ Showing your face carelessly on the street
Under these conditions, husbands were allowed to abandon their wives, so God allowed them to write a divorce certificate so that women's human rights were protected. But he said that the original will of God is not to be divided.
※ We are here God's heart for marriage
1) The person I am married to is the providence of God. (What you paired with)
ㅇ To cherish the person who is married now
ㅇ If you get married because you are very dead and you can't live, and if you get along a little bit, then you think it's this person and break up
Therefore, we need to think carefully about marriage from the very beginning.
It takes a lot of prayer and restraint to get married in the conviction that you are the spouse God has given you.
Also, if you are married like that, you need to have patience with each other.
Classic 13:
1. Love endures for a long time
2. I can't be patient
3. They do not seek their own interests.
4. You have to think of the other person first.
Once you are married, you have to be patient and do your best, knowing that God has given you a match.
The reason we have to be patient is so that we do not pass it on to our children, children learn by watching and not learning with words. No matter how much we talk, they learn by experiencing their parents divorce, and what are they planted in their hearts?
Oh, even if you get married, life is hard, and if you don't like it, you can get a divorce.
2) Divorce was forbidden to prevent adultery
But these days, three people become one body and four people try to become one body.
When divorce becomes easy, sexuality becomes promiscuous.
God forbid divorce to prevent it
In other words, he said these words on the way to Jerusalem to carry the cross.
Beloved, those who find it too difficult to deal with unavoidable adversity, pain, and crisis between husband and wife, take that pain and go to the place of prayer.
And at the foot of the cross, let the burden be lifted and the Lord comfort you
The Lord never turns away from our suffering and the power of the cross sets us free